QueerCalendarStep into a space where curiosity, intellect, and a touch of the taboo come together. This kinky book club meets once a month for a 2-hour session designed to spark thoughtful, open-minded conversation. Whether you’ve read the book cover to cover or are coming in fresh, you’re welcome, reading is a bonus, not a requirement.
Each gathering includes curated excerpts from the selected book, with time set aside to read, reflect, and formulate your own questions. From there, the group dives into discussion, focusing on themes, big ideas, and the intersections of sexuality, power, identity, and culture. Selections alternate between fiction and non-fiction, offering a dynamic mix of storytelling and critical exploration.
This is a participant-driven space where curiosity is encouraged and diverse perspectives are valued. Book suggestions are always welcome, helping shape a reading list that reflects the interests of the community.
For those who want to keep the conversation going, a dedicated Discord channel is available to Ember Society members. All sessions are facilitated by an Ember Society host, ensuring a respectful, engaging, and thoughtfully guided experience.
This month, we’ll be discussing Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships by Chris M. Lyon. “Do traditional relationship books fail to capture your relationship orientation? You naturally lead, or you thrive by following - this book validates and explains that dynamic. In Leading and Supportive Love, you’ll get research insights, real case studies, and practical help for your unique partnership And yes: This is a relationship where both partners are equals.
Location: Ember Society, Mission Valley, San Diego. Address given to ticket holders.
Sliding scale tickets from $10.
