Gay Men’s Book Club: No More Mr. Nice Guy

What happens when being “nice” becomes less about kindness—and more about avoiding conflict, seeking approval, or hiding what you really want?

This month, we’ll be discussing No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover, a provocative book about people-pleasing, boundaries, resentment, relationships, self-worth, and learning to express your needs more honestly.

Together, we’ll explore questions like:
• Where do you say yes when you really want to say no?
• How comfortable are you asking directly for what you want?
• When does generosity become approval-seeking?
• What happens when we suppress our needs to keep other people happy?
• What would it look like to be kind without abandoning yourself?

You don’t have to agree with everything in the book—in fact, some of the best conversations may come from challenging it.

Whether you finish the book, read part of it, or simply want to explore the ideas and spend time with some great guys, you’re welcome to join us for meaningful conversation and connection with other thoughtful, growth-oriented gay men.

📍 113 Spring Street, SoHo (it's both the store name and the address)
🕠 5:30–7:00 PM