QueerCalendarAutistic Kinksters’ Club is an Autistic-led peer support and discussion space for diagnosed, self-realized, and questioning Autistic people navigating kink, BDSM, rope, and consent-based communities.
This space is also open to supportive allistic partners and community members who want to better understand and support the Autistic people in their lives.
Together we’ll explore topics such as communication and consent negotiation, sensory needs at parties and events, masking vs. unmasking, burnout, social dynamics, accessibility, and finding, or building, spaces that actually fit.
This is not a formal class or therapy group, but a community-centered space rooted in shared experience, conversation, support, and connection.
Stimming, scripting, fidgeting, note-taking, needing processing time, wearing headphones, infodumping, or quietly existing are all welcome here. There is no expectation to socialize or communicate in any particular way.
Whether you are newly exploring your neurodivergence or simply looking for other people who “get it,” you are welcome here.
Come as you are.
Location: Ember Society, Mission Valley, San Diego. Address given to ticket holders.
Sliding scale tickets from $10.
